Top 10 Places to Elope In Rhode Island

The Best Spots to Elope in RI

SWELL & STONE / Rhode Island Outdoor Wedding & Elopement Photographer

Rhode Island is one of the premier places in the country for elopements. It is, after all, the Ocean State and has 400 miles of gorgeous coastline that includes cliffs, dunes, river rocks, and sandy open beaches. And while the coastline is a major attraction it also has beautiful forests, lakes, and rivers dotted with cute cabins if that’s more your style.

To be honest, my goal in life is to find a couple (or many!) who want to paddle to their own private island for their elopement. There are a ton of unoccupied islands in this state, just off the coast and in lakes and rivers. Many of them are simply a short paddle away. Have a boat? We can take that too! The point is, there are so many gorgeous spots open to exploration. So if you’re looking for seclusion and views, get in touch and let’s start planning your dream elopement. Want to spread your search a little broader? Here’s my New England elopement guide. Check out these articles if you’re looking for Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Connecticut, Maine, or Upstate NY

When planning an elopement, especially one in the summer months, it is always best to plan on a weekday. If you plan on having no guests, or just your immediate families, it is ultimately less expensive, plus easier to plan ceremonies with fewer crowds. Here are some of the best spots to elope in Rhode Island.

Where to Elope in RI?

1. Lighthouse(s) on Public Lands

   From Beavertail to Point Judith to North Light on Block Island, these spots are honestly one of the most picturesque spots in the state, and a great spot to catch the sunset. Castle Hill is another option, but it is on private land and requires booking services with Castle Hill Inn. This is also close to Fort Adams State Park, which has incredible views of the Newport bridge, and is a great spot to visit any time of year. The rocky coastline in this area provides for a lot of exploration and scenery unique to Rhode Island, including tide pools. Check out this gallery.

2. Wood River

   The Wood River runs through the Arcadia Management Area, which is where a bulk of the scenic spots on the river can be found. One of the coolest spots is just north of Alton Pond. In the summer there are copious blueberry and raspberry bushes and calm, beautiful waters. There are several AirBnB’s couples can rent along the river, and there are rope swings and docks dotted along the shoreline. The river is cocooned in a canopy of big trees, which opens into marches and lakes in the wider spots. So if you want to elope summer camp style, this is a great option.

3. Moonstone Beach

   This beach, located right next to Trustom Pond National Wildlife Refuge, can be tough to visit in the summer due to seasonal parking restrictions and to protect the breeding environment of piping plovers. However, if you can time it right this is one of the most beautiful beaches to elope on, and it is secluded due to the lack of parking and all the restrictions. If you’d like to know more about eloping here, reach out and I can help you plan it to take advantage of the best time of year and the best time of day for light.

4. Napatree Point Conservation Area

   This point is one of the coolest places in the entire state. It’s a strip of land that juts out far into the Block Island Sound. It’s so narrow, you can walk back and forth from one side to the other, and there are incredible sand dunes and seagrasses that make for stunning photos. The point is long enough to find a little privacy the further out you walk. Parking can be a pain in the summer, but planning on a weekday elopement can help curtail that issue.

5. East Beach

   This is a wide beach with surprisingly clear waters and little infrastructure. There is over 3 miles of straight, undeveloped beachfront, a rare sight anywhere these days. An added bonus is that you can drive your 4x4 vehicle onto the sand, bring your dog, and even ride your horse on the beach outside of peak summer hours, naturally. In order to drive your vehicle on the beach (including camping vehicles), a Barrier Beach pass is needed. Find more information on the registration and use of 4x4 vehicles on the beach here.  

6. Block Island

   This spot is a favorite of Rhode Islanders and out-of-towners alike. From the incredible sunset views at North Light to the amazingly picturesque Mohegan Bluffs this island has all the makings of the perfect elopement adventure. There’s great food on the island, gorgeous accommodations, and taking the ferry over from the mainland is park of the fun! If you’re looking for a true island adventure elopement in Rhode Island, this is the spot for you! (NOTE: weekdays or planning very far in advance are a must for this spot. And secluded ceremony spots are even better before Memorial Day or after Labor Day). Check out this gallery.

7. Brenton Point State Park

   This park is in Newport, RI and perfectly situated to enjoy the sunset, and there are some more secluded spots tucked deep into the trails here. During the summer this becomes the premiere spot for kites of all shapes and sizes, so it’s windy, but all the kites add an aura of free-spirited ambiance. This also has 180-degree views of the water, and it’s located close to a few other spots on this list, so you could make a whole or half-day out of visiting several while fitting a ceremony in at your favorite spot.

8. Conimicut Point Park

   This park has a sand bar that extends into the Narragansett Bay at various distances depending on the tide. It’s close to Providence, so it makes for a nice half-day elopement and lovely views close to the city. There’s even a tiny chapel by the sea right next to the beach if you are looking to have a religious ceremony.

9. Second Beach (Sachuest Beach)

   While one of the most well-known beaches in the state located in Middletown, RI there is plenty of space to roam here. It is protected by sand dunes and sea grasses and it is right next to Sachuest Point National Wildlife Refuge, with Third Beach on the other side. This area has so many options for incredible photos that it is hard to beat. If magical beach walks are the stuff your elopement dreams are made of, this spot might be the one for you. Check out this gallery.

10. South shore Beach

    This beach backs up to a delightfully undeveloped piece of land that has two ponds on it. There also aren’t a bunch of mansions overlooking the water here, which makes the view nicer in my opinion. There are dirt roads to gorgeous overlooks, and lots of cool tucked aways spots that don’t see a lot of tourists. This area is just a little “out of the way” in the best possible way.
    

    Bonus- Lincoln Woods State Park

    Lincoln Woods is a state park just outside of Providence, Rhode Island. It has a gorgeous lake, with islands you can paddle to in the middle for your own private ceremony. There are also rocky cliffs and lush forests with a ton of trails and nice scenic spots. Check out this gallery.

Whether you’re from Rhode Island, New England, or somewhere else, Rhode Island is an incredible place to elope or have a small outdoor wedding. From epic rocky coastlines to lush forests and rivers, there are a lot of options to host the perfect outdoor elopement getaway. So if hiking down a wide-open beach, walking through sand dunes, or paddling to a private island sound like your idea of a great elopement day, get in touch. I don’t just take small outdoor wedding and elopement photos. I help you plan your perfect, adventurous day from beginning to end.

TRAVELING TO RHODE ISLAND

The Ocean State is a little convoluted when it comes to traveling around the state. The Narragansett Bay runs right up the middle, so although it’s a small state that should take less than an hour to drive across, it often takes longer due to needing to get on one of the many bridges. However, the bridges are one of the things that make this state so cool! I love shooting elopements at Fort Adams State Park because you can have a view of the iconic Newport Bridge in your ceremony. The 95 runs north to south making travel that direction easy, but you’ll want to venture off of it for the best views in the state.

WHERE TO STAY IN RHODE ISLAND

I always recommend checking VRBO when looking for places to stay and planning your elopement. Why do I recommend VRBO over Airbnb? Because Airbnb no longer allows any type of event to take place. If it’s just the two of you that’s not a problem, but if you want to have any friends or family over and just enjoy a simple dinner celebration together VRBO allows that. In fact, there’s a box that you can check labeled “events allowed” and VRBO only shows you places where you are allowed to host a few people for a dinner celebration. Again, Airbnb is a great option if you don’t plan to use it for a celebration. I especially like their unique stays which feature super cool places, like treehouses. Who doesn’t want to elope and stay in a treehouse? I know I do!

HOW DO YOU LEGALLY GET MARRIED IN RHODE ISLAND?

If both people live in Rhode Island, apply for a marriage license at the city or town hall where either person lives. If only one person lives in Rhode Island, apply for a marriage license from the city or town hall where the Rhode Islander lives. If neither person lives in Rhode Island, apply for a marriage license from the clerk's office in the city or town where the marriage ceremony will be performed.

Both people must provide a valid photo identification and a certified birth certificate. Check with the clerk’s office  in the city or town hall where you will apply for a marriage license for any requirements about approved forms of identification, proof of birth, or proof of address. If either person was married or in a legal relationship before, the applicant(s) must provide a certified final divorce decree/dissolution or a certified death certificate for the former spouse. A legal relationship includes marriage, civil union, common law marriage, or registered domestic partnership. A certified copy of a vital record must have a raised State seal on it.

HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO GET MARRIED IN RHODE ISLAND?

To obtain a marriage license, both parties must apply for the license in person at the city or town clerk’s office. The couple is required to complete the marriage worksheet and provide the required documentation. The clerk will then create the marriage license from the information provided. Both parties are required to sign both the worksheet and the marriage license in the presence of the city or town clerk. The fee for the marriage license is currently $24.00 payable to the city or town.

Best Places to Elope in New Hampshire

Top 10 New Hampshire Elopement Locations

SWELL & STONE / Elopement Photographer / New Hampshire & Beyond

How to Plan Your New Hampshire Elopement

The Granite State is full of beauty and the White Mountains are home to some of the best places to elope in New Hampshire and I offer a variety of elopement packages in NH. Maybe you’ve already decided a traditional wedding is not your thing, but a New Hampshire elopement might be the perfect fit for your lifestyle. New Hampshire has so many stunning landscapes from cliffs to epic mountain ranges, to crystal clear waterfalls, and is considered one of the best places in the New England region and the country for elopements. Those looking for an adventure wedding experience should look no further than eloping in NH.

Want to spread your search a little broader? Here’s my New England elopement guide. Check out these articles if you’re looking for Rhode Island, Massachusetts, Vermont, Connecticut, Maine, or Upstate NY. Also, check out these galleries for real couples who eloped in New Hampshire- Maddy & Chris, Julia & Jeff, Alexis & Christian, Gwen & Dan.

New Hampshire is known as the Granite State, and for good reason, because New Hampshire is home to the White Mountains and Mt. Washington, the region’s highest peak. Outdoor enthusiasts from all over the country and the world flock to the White Mountains to hike, ski, explore, and recreate. New Hampshire is defined by its quaint towns and large expanses of wilderness, and you can enjoy all the charm that New England has to offer paired with vast opportunities for outdoor adventure and fun.

Mt. Washington State Park is home to the tallest mountain east of the Mississippi. Lake Winnipesaukee is a huge lake that has private islands and incredible sunrise and sunset views, depending on the side you choose to explore. Go north to Dixville Notch and find an extremely steep and wild landscape that is a little more secluded, or take a drive down the world-renowned Kancamagus Highway, which boasts some of the best views on the entire east coast.

When planning an elopement it is always best to plan on a weekday. If you plan on having no guests, or just your immediate families, it is ultimately less expensive, plus easier to plan ceremonies with fewer crowds. Here are some of the best spots to elope in NH.

Where to Elope In NH

Cathedral Ledge

The spot is a favorite for those eloping with family or friends who can’t hike far. It’s an incredibly beautiful location that provides beautiful views of Echo Lake State Park below, as well as mountains in the distance. There is a road to the top and a small parking area, making the walk to the wedding location very short. However, because there is a road, it obviously attracts more crowds, and a permit is required in this location. Check out this gallery to see an actual elopement here.

Franconia Notch State Park

Franconia Notch State Park is an enchanting wonderland of beautiful elopement locations. The mountains rise up out of the lake and river valley here and the forests are just as incredible as the mountain tops. There are a ton of gorge-like features that have crystal clear water rushing over them. The first time I ever visited here I think I was left with my jaw on the ground. I couldn’t believe there were so many beautiful places packed into one small area. This area has so much to do and see it is the dream location for an all-day elopement where you want to sample a little bit of every type of landscape.

There are a few lakes with stunning mountain backdrops in this area. During the summer months, there is a fee to enter, and it is usually crowded with swimmers, so I only recommend it early in the morning or later in the evening. In the off-season, it is the perfect spot to take a stroll and see the lake in its full glory. There are also a few gorgeous and quick hikes leading to stunning overlooks of a lake and the mountains surrounding it. Also, right in this area is access to Cannon Mountain and its gondola which boasts incredible views and a lot of fun as an elopement day activity. Check out this gallery.

Pinkham Notch

Pinkham Notch is a mountain pass just south of the Mt. Washington area. It’s a favorite spot for backcountry skiers, hikers, and ice climbers. Appalachian Mountain Club (AMC) runs a visitors center here, and it’s very close to Wildcat Mountain, the resort that is frequently cited as having the best views in New England. They have a gondola that you can take to the top as part of your elopement day, but the surrounding area has plenty to keep you occupied as well. There is a huge variety of hikes within a short distance. In fact, you don’t have to hike far at all to find lovely views here, but you also can hike a long way if you desire.

Mt. Washington

Mt. Washington State Park is home to Mt. Washington, the highest peak in the Northeastern United States at 6,288 ft and the most topographically prominent mountain east of the Mississippi River. The great thing about Mt. Washington is that (during the summer months) it offers all the adventure without all the strenuous hiking. There is a road to the top, and there is also the famous and unique Cog Railway. There are options to take a biodiesel or steam train. The train is only at the summit for an hour, so if you’d like longer than that to explore the top, like having a ceremony at Lake of the Clouds, for instance, I would recommend taking the train up and then having family drive up the Auto Road. Auto Road rates are $35 for car and driver, plus $10 for additional adults. The Auto Road is open generally from early to late May depending on conditions to the early to late October, also depending on conditions. The Cog Railway is open all year but doesn’t run some days due to weather, and the winter summit is only partway up the mountain. Still a fun experience on a chilly elopement day.

Of course, you can hike as well. It is about 8 miles round trip with over 4,000 feet of elevation gain. That’s over 1000 feet of elevation gain per mile, which tends to be a steep grade. Check out this gallery.

Kancamagus Highway

The Kancamagus Highway, also known as New Hampshire Route 112 is a 56.39-mile-long east-west state highway in northern New Hampshire. It’s a designated scenic byway that takes you through a path cut through the White Mountain National Forest with breathtaking views of the White Mountains, the Swift River, Sabbaday Falls, Lower Falls, and Rocky Gorge. With so many places to stop and hike and see the sights, this makes for an ideal journey on your elopement day. The road goes through an old-growth forest that is not littered with resorts, houses, or other buildings. In fact, it’s not built up at all, it’s just pure nature at its best. Check out this gallery. Check out this gallery.

Lake Winnipesaukee area

Lake Winnipesaukee is the largest lake in New Hampshire and located in the Lakes Region at the foothills of the White Mountains. One of my favorite hikes is in this area, and it’s a short and fairly easy one for eloping couples! The views from the surrounding mountains of the lake below are unstoppable, but then add that to exploring the lake itself! It’s a great place to find a secluded island, take a boat trip, rent a canoe, or practice your stand-up paddleboarding. There are so many options for activities during your elopement day that you’ll be left wondering how you can fit it all in.

Crawford Notch State Park

Crawford Notch State Park has 5,775 acres and has access to numerous hiking trails, waterfalls, fishing, wildlife viewing, and unreal mountain views. Just driving through this area you will be amazed by waterfalls falling off the face of mountains and beautiful swimming holes along the side of the road. Add that into the hiking trails and stunning views and it’s a perfect combination for people planning an active elopement. Start with one of my favorite incredible view hikes at sunrise, and end your elopement by jumping into a waterfall or mountain lake!

Dixville Notch State Park

This one is a little further off the beaten path in the far north part of the state of NH. And honestly, I would only recommend this spot to people who are not afraid of heights. This is an incredible area that has mountain lakes, waterfalls, gorgeous mountain views, and some extreme cliffs. The bonus of this spot is that with the exception of the cliff ledge itself, there is virtually no one else on the trails. I have a few additional recommendations for this area that can really help you have the elopement of your dreams. Check out this gallery.

Mt. Chocorua

How could I skip this beautiful mountain and its lovely mountain lake. In fact, it is New England's most photographed mountain. The hike to the top is strenuous, but you are awarded with 360 views at the top. So whether you choose to explore the lake and the base of the mountain (including trails to waterfalls) or go up to the summit, there are incredible views to be found.

Requirements to get Married in New Hampshire if you are from out of state:

You must be 18 years old or older, you must have a valid photo ID with your current address on it, you must have a valid marriage license from the state where you live or where the marriage will take place, and it must be signed by a judge or clerk of court. And finally, if you are divorced, you need to show proof that your divorce is final and that there is no chance of reconciliation with your spouse (e.g., death certificate). If you were previously married, you need to show proof that your previous marriage is final and that there is no chance of reconciliation with your spouse.

In the state of New Hampshire, witnesses are not required to be present at a wedding ceremony in order for a marriage to be considered legal. A couple can choose to have someone act as a witness at their ceremony, but they do not have to.

Whether you’re from New Hampshire, New England, or anywhere else in the country or world, NH is an incredible place to elope or have a small outdoor wedding. From epic mountain destinations to lush forests, lakes, and rivers, there are a lot of options to host the perfect outdoor elopement getaway. So if hiking to a stunning waterfall, summiting mountains, or paddling a lake or river sounds like your idea of a great elopement day, get in touch. I don’t just take small outdoor wedding and elopement photos. I help you plan your perfect, adventurous day from beginning to end.

Cost of Eloping in NH?

Eloping is a great way to save money on your wedding. It also means that you don't have to worry about the stress of planning a big event. But how much does it cost to elope in New Hampshire?

The cost of eloping in New Hampshire varies depending on the type of ceremony you want and where you want it. For example, if you want a small ceremony at home, then the cost will be less than if you wanted an elaborate ceremony at a hotel.

The average cost of wedding venues in New Hampshire is around $5,000, and the average cost of a full, traditional wedding is around $35,000. But if you choose to get married by eloping in the great outdoors that cost can go down significantly. Check out an elopement cost calculator here. Eloping couples choose to pay for the things that are important to them. For some couples, that is having great photos and having the time of their lives that they will remember forever. Those things are more important than paying for a party for a large number of friends and family, most of whom they don’t see that often. Eloping couples often choose to spend more on the experience and the process of documenting their day than the guests involved.

Ready to start planning your New Hampshire Elopement? Get in touch with me today!

Best Places to Elope on the East Coast

Top East Coast Elopement Locations

SWELL & STONE / Adventure Elopement Photographer / New England & Beyond

If you're looking for an intimate elopement setting with plenty of charm, the east coast is a great place to consider. From rocky coastline and lush forests to charming small towns and bustling city streets, there are plenty of amazing places to elope on the east coast. In this comprehensive guide, we'll introduce you to some of our favorite spots, from well-known destinations to hidden gems off the beaten path. So if you're ready to say "I do" without all the fuss, read on for inspiration!

Eloping is a popular option for couples who want to avoid the stress and expense of a traditional wedding. More and more couples are eloping these days, and there are plenty of reasons why.

For one, eloping can be a lot cheaper than hosting a big wedding, and people tend to spend money on the things they truly care about, like having a great experience. Some couples choose to hike to their elopement spot, take a plane or helicopter ride, jump into a hot air balloon or kayak to their elopement destination.

And since it's usually just the two of you, you can elope pretty much anywhere you want-including some of the most beautiful places on the east coast.

Whether you're looking for a dramatic setting like Niagara Falls or something more low-key like a quaint bed and breakfast in Vermont, there are plenty of great places to elope on the east coast. In this guide, we'll share some of our favorites so you can start planning your dream elopement.

Best East Coast Regions to Elope

New England

Hands down my favorite region on the east coast for elopements is New England. I may be biased because this is where I spend most of my time photographing, and it’s where I live, but this area truly does have it all. From stunning beaches to endless mountain views, this area is known for outdoor recreation and all the views that come with it.

Vermont

Vermont is another great option for couples who want to elope in New England. This state is known for its beautiful fall foliage, so eloping here in the autumn would be especially stunning. Vermont has plenty of charm to offer eloping couples.

Maine

Maine is a popular destination for elopements because of its stunning natural scenery. From the rocky coastline to the towering mountains, there are plenty of beautiful places to elope in this state. Acadia National Park is a favorite of many couples. And with small towns like Kennebunkport and Portland, you'll have no shortage of charming places to stay during your elopement.

New Hampshire

-The White Mountains: The White Mountains are a great option for couples who want to elope in New England. With plenty of hiking and camping opportunities, this region is perfect for outdoorsy couples. And with its scenic views and quaint towns, the White Mountains offer everything you need for a romantic elopement.

-Lake Winnipesaukee: If you're looking for a lakeside elopement, Lake Winnipesaukee is a great option. This large lake in New Hampshire's Lakes Region is surrounded by mountains, so you'll have plenty of beautiful scenery to enjoy during your elopement.

Rhode Island

-Newport: Newport is a popular elopement destination because of its scenic coastline and charming seaside towns. If you're looking for a romantic spot to elope, Newport would be a great choice.

-Block Island: Block Island is another great option for couples who want to elope by the sea. This small island off the coast of Rhode Island is known for its beautiful beaches and stunning views.

-Narragansett: Narragansett is a great choice for couples who want to elope by the sea. With its beautiful beaches and charming seaside towns, Narragansett has everything you need for a romantic elopement.

Massachusetts

If you're looking for a scenic spot in New England, the Berkshires are a great option. With picturesque mountain views and plenty of charming towns to explore, this region has everything you need for a romantic elopement. Massachusetts's eastern coast is also home to Cape Cod and several gorgeous and scenic islands off the coast.

Here are some helpful links to the Best Places to Elope in New England:

Top Elopement Locations in Each Season

Best Places to Elope in Rhode Island

Top Elopement Locations in Massachusetts

Best Elopement Spots in Upstate New York

Best Spots to Elope in Vermont

Best Elopement Locations in New Hampshire

Best Places to Elope in Maine

Top Elopement Locations in Connecticut

The Mid-Atlantic

Upstate NY

-The Finger Lakes: The Finger Lakes are a great option for couples who want to elope in New York. With its stunning scenery and plentiful outdoor activities, this region is perfect for nature-loving couples.

-The Catskills: The Catskills are another great option for eloping in Upstate New York. With its picturesque mountains and charming small towns, the Catskills have everything you need for a romantic elopement.

-The Adirondacks: The Adirondacks are a great choice for couples who want to elope in Upstate New York. With its stunning scenery and plentiful outdoor activities, this region is perfect for nature-loving couples.

-Niagara Falls, New York: Niagara Falls is one of the most popular spots for elopements on the east coast. With its dramatic setting and easy accessibility from both Canada and the United States, it's no wonder so many couples choose to elope here. If you're looking for a truly memorable elopement experience, Niagara Falls is definitely worth considering.

Pennsylvania

-Philadelphia, Pennsylvania: Philadelphia is another great option for couples eloping in the Mid-Atlantic region. This city has a lot to offer, from its rich history to its vibrant food scene. And with plenty of hotels and other amenities, it's easy to find everything you need for a stress-free elopement in Philadelphia.

-The Poconos: The Poconos are a great option for couples who want to elope in Pennsylvania. With its scenic views and ample outdoor activities, this region is perfect for nature-loving couples.

The South

-Asheville, North Carolina: Asheville is a great choice for couples eloping in the south. With its stunning mountain views and charming downtown area, it's no wonder this city is so popular with elopers. And with plenty of hotels and other amenities, it's easy to find everything you need for your elopement here.

-Savannah, Georgia: If you're looking for a truly romantic spot to elope, consider Savannah. This city is known for its beautiful architecture and scenic parks, making it the perfect backdrop for your elopement photos. Plus, with its convenient location on the east coast, Savannah is an easy place to elope if you're short on time.

-Charleston, South Carolina: Charleston is another great option for couples eloping in the south. With its cobblestone streets and antebellum architecture, this city is oozing with southern charm. And with plenty of hotels and other amenities, it's easy to find everything you need for your elopement here.

Common Questions About Eloping

Now that we’ve told you our favorite place to elope, let's answer some common questions about eloping.

What is eloping?

Eloping simply means getting married without all the fuss of a traditional wedding. This can mean anything from eloping to City Hall to eloping at a beautiful location with just a few close family and friends present. The important thing is that you're focused on each other, not on putting on a big show for everyone else.

Why elope?

There are plenty of reasons why couples choose to elope. For some, it's a way to save money and avoid the stress of planning a big wedding. Others want to keep things simple and intimate, or they might elope to a destination that's meaningful to them. Whatever your reasons, eloping can be a great way to focus on what's truly important-each other.

Benefits of Choosing to Elope

As we mentioned, one of the big benefits of eloping is that it can save you a lot of money. Traditional weddings can cost tens of thousands of dollars, but eloping can be done for a fraction of that. And since you're not spending money on things like catering, and a reception hall, you can elope to a more luxurious location, an incredible photographer who will document the day like it deserves, or put that money towards your honeymoon instead.

Eloping is also much more convenient than planning a traditional wedding. There's no need to worry about coordinating all the details with a ton of vendors and guests. It doesn't have to be just the two of you! A lot of people choose to have immediate family or a few friends joy in on the fun.

If it is just the two of you, you can elope on pretty much any date and time that works for you-no need to wait for everyone else to be available.

Finally, eloping gives you the freedom to personalize your wedding exactly how you want. Whether you want to get married in your backyard or elope to a far-flung destination, the sky's the limit when you're eloping. You can even write your own vows, choose your own music, and wear whatever you want-it's all up to you!

So now that we've answered some of the most common questions about eloping, let's take a look at some of our favorite places to elope on the east coast.

Things to Keep in Mind When Planning Your Elopement

If you're thinking about eloping, there are a few things you should keep in mind. Eloping is all about choosing a location that's meaningful to you and your partner. So when you're choosing a place to elope, think about what's important to you and your partner and pick a location accordingly.

As for planning the ceremony itself, there are a few things to keep in mind. First, if you want to elope on the spur of the moment, make sure you have all the necessary documents (e.g. marriage license) with you. Second, if you want to plan something more elaborate, give yourself plenty of time to do so. And finally, don't forget to elope in a place that's special to you and your partner - or a place you’ve always wanted to see together so you can create new memories there.

By following these tips, you can be sure that eloping will be a wonderful and stress-free experience for you and your partner. So go out there and find the perfect spot to elope - it'll be worth it, we promise!

Happy eloping!

Still not sure where to elope? Check out our list of the best places to elope in New England.

Should I Elope? (QUIZ)

Is an Elopement Style Wedding for You?

SWELL & STONE / Adventure Elopement Photographer / New England & Beyond

If you've tried planning a traditional wedding but find yourself uninspired and overwhelmed you may be asking yourself, should I just elope? That is, should you run off and get married without all of the pomp and circumstance? It's a big decision, so take this quiz to help you decide if eloping is right for you.

What is Eloping

Eloping is an exciting and adventurous way to say your vows. At its core, eloping is a romantic gesture that allows two people to make a lifelong commitment in a meaningful, personal way.

Whether you choose to elope by yourselves or with just a few close friends and family members, it's a special opportunity to celebrate your love on your own terms.

What's more, eloping can be an incredibly budget-friendly option, giving you the freedom to focus on all of the other aspects of planning your special day. So if you're looking for something different and memorable for your wedding day, why not consider eloping?

Whether it's rushing off to get hitched with only a couple weeks to plan or jetting off on an exotic destination wedding adventure, eloping is sure to create beautiful memories that will last a lifetime.

The Cost of Eloping

I actually have a great post that covers this in more detail and even includes a calculator. When it comes to getting married, there are many different ways that couples can choose to celebrate their big day. Some opt for an elaborate, traditional ceremony at a large wedding venue with all of their friends and family in attendance. Others may choose to elope, seeking a more intimate and adventurous experience for just the two of them. While many people assume that eloping is cheaper than having a big wedding, the cost of eloping can actually be surprisingly high.

In order to ensure that your elopement goes off without a hitch, you will need to factor in the cost of all of the various components that come into play. This might include travel and accommodations for yourself and your partner, professional photography or videography services, hair and makeup appointments, and any other miscellaneous items that you might want to include in your special day. Additionally, if you are planning on having any guests there with you, you will need to factor in food for at least one meal and anything else you might want to cover for them as well. Ultimately, while eloping can be a wonderful option for certain couples looking for an especially romantic experience, it just depends on what you want to include and like weddings can have a wide range of costs associated.

How to Elope

Eloping is a popular way to get married without all the fuss of a traditional wedding. But how do you go about eloping? Here are a few tips to help you plan the perfect elopement:

1. Choose your destination carefully

You'll want a place that has special meaning to you both, or is simply stunning and romantic.

2. Keep it simple

Eloping is all about stripping away the unnecessary details and focusing on what's truly important: your love for each other.

3. Be prepared

While spontaneous elopements can be incredibly romantic, it's still important to do your research and make sure all the necessary arrangements are in place (e.g., obtaining a marriage license).

4. Tell your closest friends and family members about your plans…or don’t!

People assume when they elope that they can’t have friends or family in attendence. That’s just not true anymore, but it can be if you want it to be. There is no “right way” to elope, so just do it your way and call it a day.

5. Most importantly, relax and enjoy every moment of your elopement

This is one of the most exciting days of your life, so savor every second.

Pros of Eloping

Eloping has become a popular option for couples who want to get married while creating an experience that they will remember forever. There are many Pros of Eloping, including the fact that it is often cheaper than a traditional wedding, and it can be a more intimate and personal experience. Many couples elope because they want to avoid the stress of planning a big wedding, and they also want to have the freedom to choose their own ceremony and vows. Eloping can also be a great way to add an element of adventure to your wedding day, and it can be a lot of fun! If you are considering eloping, here are some pros of eloping that you may want to keep in mind.

-Can be cheaper than a traditional wedding

-More intimate and personal experience

-Can be a great way to add an element of adventure to your wedding day

-Can be more fun than a traditional wedding

- You don’t have to say your vows in front of a large audience…or anyone at all except your partner

- If some family doesn’t approve of your union, you can just not invite them because who cares about their opinion anyway

Cons of Eloping

People often think of eloping as a romantic and adventurous way to get married. While that is true, there are also several potential downsides that should be taken into consideration. For one thing, eloping typically involves skipping over some of the formalities involved in the traditional wedding process. If that’s important to you, it’s something to keep in mind. Of course, you can just include the traditions you care about and forget about the ones you don’t.

Another drawback of eloping is that it often means forfeiting some of the associated rituals, such as bridal showers or bachelorette parties. This can mean missing out on important moments with friends and loved ones who may not be able to attend the ceremony itself.

Overall, while there are clearly some advantages to eloping, couples should carefully consider these potential drawbacks before deciding whether this type of spontaneous wedding is right for them.

Who can Elope

Who can elope? Who can't elope? If you've got the desire to escape to an undisclosed location with your one true love in order to get hitched without all the rigamarole, then you, my friend, can elope! There's no correct answer as to who can or cannot elope. You don't have to be young and in love - though that definitely helps - you could be renewing your vows after 50 years of blissful marriage. You also don't have to be running off together in order to escape judgment from disapproving parents or society - though again, that would add an extra layer of excitement to your adventure. The bottom line is that if you want to elope, then do it!

Eloping is often seen as a spontaneous act, carried out by two people who are madly in love and can't wait to tie the knot. While this may be the case for some couples, eloping is actually an option for any couple who wants to forego a traditional wedding. There are no set rules about who can elope, and couples of all ages, backgrounds, and relationship status can choose to elope. Whether you're planning a secret ceremony or simply want to avoid the hassle of planning a big wedding, eloping might be the right choice for you. So don't let anyone tell you that you can't elope - if it's what you truly want, go for it!

Reasons to Elope

Eloping is a simple and intimate way to marry, without all the fuss and stress that often comes with planning a traditional wedding. Here are four reasons why eloping might be the right choice for you:

1. You want to keep things simple. Eloping eliminates the need to plan a big event or invite a large number of guests. All you need is your officiant and (if the state requires) witnesses, which makes it a very intimate affair.

2. You want to save money. Traditional weddings can be extremely expensive, but eloping can be done on a shoestring budget. You can even get married for free at some locations, like city halls or parks.

3. You want to avoid family drama. If you have difficult family members who you don’t want to invite to your wedding, eloping allows you to avoid that drama altogether.

4. You want an adventure. If you’re looking for an exciting way to start your marriage, elope! This is your chance to do something unique and adventurous, like getting married at the top of a mountain or in another country entirely. Whether you’re eloping for practical reasons or simply because it sounds like fun, there are plenty of reasons to consider this option. But before you make any decisions, be sure to do your research and choose the right location for you.

Where Should You Elope?

I may be a little biased, but since I photograph primarily New England elopements, I think the best place on earth to get married is in New England. When you think of an adventurous place to elope, New England might not be the first thing that comes to mind. With its lush forests and rugged mountains, New England is a picture-perfect spot for any romantic getaway. Whether you want to walk hand-in-hand along icy winter shores or celebrate your nuptials with a dazzle of fireflies in summertime, New England has everything you need for the perfect memorable elopement. I have a ton of articles about the specific places I recommend in New England.

Here are some helpful links to the Best Places to Elope in New England:

Top Elopement Locations in Each Season

Best Places to Elope in Rhode Island

Top Elopement Locations in Massachusetts

Best Elopement Spots in Upstate New York

Best Spots to Elope in Vermont

Best Elopement Locations in New Hampshire

Best Places to Elope in Maine

Top Elopement Locations in Connecticut

Mountains

Why not consider eloping in the mountains? The soaring alpine peaks and pristine lakes of the any of the mountainous states are the ideal setting for those seeking peace and quiet in their special day. Whether you choose to hike through beautiful meadows and hidden waterfalls or simply watch from a cozy mountain cabin as the sun sets over endless ridges and valleys, this magical landscape is sure to spark feelings of wanderlust that stay with you forever.

Ocean

For beach bums looking for inspiration, nothing could beat an oceanfront elopement. With its peaceful waves, sparkling shores, and colorful tropical sunsets, the ocean is the ultimate backdrop for anyone looking to tie the knot with a whimsical touch of romance. Whether you're dreaming of exchanging vows on a secluded stretch of sand or in front of a historic lighthouse, an oceanfront elopement is sure to make your wedding day truly unforgettable.

Desert

If you're looking for an adventure instead of a traditional wedding, you may want to consider eloping in the desert. Deserts are one of the most unique and beautiful places on earth, and they offer a wide range of elopement locations to choose from. In addition to being visually stunning, deserts offer a sense of isolation and peace that can be difficult to find in other environments. Whether you're looking for an intimate ceremony for two or a grand celebration with all your friends and family, there's sure to be a desert location that's perfect for you. So if you're searching for an unforgettable way to tie the knot, look no further than the vast and varied landscape of the desert. Need another quiz to help you determine which landscape you should elope in? Check this out!

Eloping Checklist

Planning to elope can be an incredibly exciting adventure, full of adventure and spontaneity. But before you head out on your elopement adventure, it's important to make sure that you have everything you need to make the day go smoothly. This eloping checklist will help you prepare for everything from securing a marriage license to choosing the perfect elopement location. Check out my more comprehensive checklist HERE.

1. Choose your location

2. Pick your officiant

3. Determine who will witness the ceremony

4. Plan your attire

5. Create a playlist of songs for the occasion

6. Send out invitations (or not!)

So, is eloping for you? If you want an adventure and a chance to really focus on your new spouse, eloping could be the perfect choice for you. Just make sure that you take into account all of the pros and cons so that you can make the best decision for your unique situation. And if you decide that eloping isn’t right for you, no problem! There are plenty of other amazing wedding options out there waiting to be explored.

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Ankeeta & Jacob Elope in Acadia National Park

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / MAINE & BEYOND

A magical fairytale is the best way to describe Ankeeta and Jacob’s Acadia National Park elopement. They met at a strategically positioned overlook before the sun even rose from their first look. The moon was setting in the background and they were both really excited to see one another and begin their incredible elopement day. After their first look, they hiked with family and their pups to their ceremony spot and said their vows as the sunrise rose, filling the morning sky with soft light and muted colors. Our timing was perfect because after they finished their vows and a small celebration, hikers began arriving at this popular spot in the park. We moved a little for formal photos and some more exploration and then the marine layer fog began to roll in. It seemed that we would have three days worth of weather in 3 hours!

After the morning session the couple and their family went to breakfast and had a relaxing rest of their morning. I met them again in the afternoon where they roasted s’mores with their family and got ready again for the second portion of their adventure elopement day. We went back to the park where we hiked, went to the beach and watched the sunset. As the sunset and everyone else cleared off the rocks we stayed and sat enjoying the seclusion and the views.

I knew the moon would rise at any moment and so we walked into position to see it come up. Ankeeta shouted “that’s it!” and we all looked at the horizon and saw an absolutely huge orange ball rising in the distance. From moonset to moonrise their entire day had come full circle. It was full of so much love, unreal views, and it was everything they wanted and more. We all felt so content sitting out there taking in the vast beauty of a place like Acadia, and as the moon rose higher and the stars came out, Ankeeta and Jacob busted out their lightsabers for some even more fun and unique light writing. They battled one another, then created a heart, and then they attempted to write their elopement date with headlamps, which proved to be a difficult task.

These two could not have been more fun to hang out with. I’m so thankful they trusted me with their vision for their day, and it’s always so incredible when the actual elopement day not only lives up to their expectations, but exceeds it. From sunrise to sunset it was such a perfect day, and they were laid back and relaxed and able to savor ever moment of it. They included so many details unique to the two of them and their relationships. They were able to include family and their two dogs, which was incredibly important to them. Oh, and I forgot to mention they traveled to Maine from Florida where they are used to much warmer weather, but the temps didn’t bother them one bit. In the morning it was probably in the high 50’s, but they came prepared and enjoyed much warmer weather the rest of the day.

I think the day is best summed up by one of the GIF’s above where they finish saying their vows and Ankeeta can be seen jumping up and down for joy! Then Jacob scoops her up in his arms for their first kiss as a married couple. They radiate joy and happiness together. And tying the knot in the way that was truly them was the best gift they could give one another.

Couple Elope in Vermont in Captivating Style

Alexis & Nick Show You How to Have the Most Perfect Fall Elopement in Vermont

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / VERMONT & BEYOND

Every once in a while, an elopement goes so much better than even I could have ever imagined, and that is exactly what happened when Alexis and Nicked eloped in Vermont. Everything from their style choices to the weather could not have been better. And they truly enjoyed and soaked in every enchanting moment of their two-day elopement.

When they first reached out we planned an elopement for just the two of them. A couple of months later they emailed me again wondering if they could add an additional day and a few guests on one day. It was the perfect compromise between getting to celebrate with their family and getting exactly what they wanted, which was to adventure and explore.

On the morning of the ceremony and family celebration, some family members ended up getting lost on their way to the log cabin property where the ceremony was being held out. But that didn’t phase Alexis and Nick one bit. We planned to hike to a waterfall after the ceremony, so we just went before, and we actually finished the hike and photos at the stunning waterfall and made it back before the last members of the family arrived! Talk about efficient use of time. They had the ceremony on the land that their log cabin Airbnb was on, and the early morning fog hung in the air for just the right amount of time. The leaves were in full, fall foliage bloom, and the fog hanging onto the mountaintops and coming off the lake gave it the most perfect ethereal quality. After the ceremony, they enjoyed a brunch cocktail hour and some celebrating before breaking out their canoe and going for a paddle around the lake. It was such a peaceful and serene moment, as there was no wind the entire morning and it looked like they were floating on a perfectly reflecting pool made of glass.

Some more celebrating with family and a surprise serenade that Nick had planned for Alexis wrapped up the rest of that day’s celebration.

The next day I met them at Mt. Mansfield where we hiked with their two best friends, who were also integral parts of the previous day. But this day was just for fun and relaxation, to enjoy spending time with each other and their best friends, and for adventure. We had the most beautiful views on Mt. Mansfield, and we headed over to Lake Champlain, but they stopped on the way to pick up some pizza for the sunset viewing we were about to do. We picked a perfect spot on the rocks on the shore of Lake Champlain. They enjoyed pizza and their first dance. They spun and twirled as the sun sank low, and we watched the boats and paddleboarders come in for the night. And then we hung out a little bit longer than everyone else, waiting for the stars to come out and the moon to rise. It was the perfect ending of an impossibly perfect two-day adventure wedding celebration.

“Kat made our wedding dream come true!

We adore autumn in New England and decided that we wanted to get married there at that time amongst the incredible fall foliage. Though we had visited some places in the area, we really relied on Kat to find the perfect destination for our elopement. After briefing her on our vision for that day, Kat gave us a list of incredible spots throughout all of New England that fit exactly what we were looking for! We were blown away by her knowledge of the area and the details she provided in order for us to make our decision.

Once we decided on a location, Kat was there for us every step of the way offering information on where to stay, what to pack, and even what to wear in regards to shoes, layers, and color scheme.

Kat was also incredibly patient and flexible throughout the entire process. We had a number of changes to the original plan (including a few on the day of the wedding) and Kat was able to accommodate our every need. It was comforting to know that if we had any issues, questions, or concerns, Kat was only a phone call away.

On the day of our elopement, Kat went above and beyond to make us feel relaxed and comfortable in knowing that she had everything under control. In fact, before our day, she actually informed us that she was pregnant and would be bringing along a photographer friend, Lindsay (who was also delightful), to assist her in case she needed to take a break. We were blown away that Kat went out of her way to bring in a second photographer just to honor her commitment to giving us the best experience possible. That kind of dedication is priceless and hard to come by.

The photos from the wedding are absolutely stunning! Kat and Lindsay were able to blend in with the beautiful fall scenery in a way that made forget that they were there. We were able to really focus on eachother on our wedding day and it shows in the pictures.

To sum things up, we put all of our faith into Kat to make our wedding dream a reality and the result was better than we ever could have imagined. Our day was truly magical and the photos are breathtaking. We are so blessed and grateful that Kat was able to provide that for us.”

— Nick & Alexis

Gorgeous Fall Elopement in Stowe Vermont

Kirsten & Kelsey Elope to Vermont During the Most Colorful Time of Year

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / VERMONT & BEYOND

To say that Kirsten and Kelsey’s gorgeous fall elopement in Stowe, Vermont didn’t go according to plan is an understatement, but they didn’t let anything stop them from having the time of their lives. I got a call the night before we were supposed to meet for a sunrise hike. It was Kelsey telling me she had just sprained her ankle going down the stairs. No worries, I assured her, there are plenty of spots around town that are short walking distance and we can pivot and still have a stunning and wonderful day. Kirsten was there to support her over the uneven terrain, and her crutches made a few appearances in the photos, but overall she was able to limp and sit and rest when needed. And at the end of the day, they were able to say their vows and they were married to one another, which is the most important part.

To add to the excitement of the day, there was rain in the forecast. But ultimately it only drizzled on us here and there, which honestly just adds to the ambiance. Their families made the trek to their waterfall ceremony location. They enjoyed a mini celebration at a mountain lake before heading back to their rental for the after celebration dinner with family. Their ceremony included tears from the officiant, Kirsten’s sister, and many of their family members were misty-eyed as well. The fall colors were in absolute peak form, just putting on the show of a lifetime and everyone was in awe of the scenery.

Watching Kesley and Kirsten together throughout the day was one of the most fun parts of the day. They genuinely have so much fun together, even when nothing goes as planned. They didn’t seem stressed at all, again even with plans changing from their original form. After our sunrise session where there was more misty fog than sunshine, Kirsten mentioned that she was a little bit nervous before the first session, but that honestly it just felt like we were hanging out and that it was so much fun. The rest of the day I just captured as it unfolded because their family was along for the ride, and in the end, the visual story of their day is one of my favorite I’ve captured so far!

Their joy, happiness, and love took center stage, and they let go of the things they couldn’t control, and honestly, they were the easiest, go-with-the-flow couple ever. Stowe is one of the easiest and loveliest places to elope because there are so many options for beautiful places to elope, even if you have a couple of changes of plans.

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Victoria & Taylor’s Lovely Coastal Rhode Island Elopement

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / RHODE ISLAND & BEYOND

Victoria and Taylor’s early winter rocky coastline elopement at Beavertail in Jamestown, Rhode Island felt more like summer with mid-60’s temps and a nice sunny day. It was super important to Victoria that she and Taylor not see each other before the ceremony- something that rarely happens anymore just because of logistics. So I made sure to pick a nice, secluded spot on the coastline where I could position Taylor for watching her walk down the hiking trail (the outdoor adventure elopement equivalent to an aisle) to their ceremony site. Things went off mostly without a hitch except for when I left Victoria and told her to give me a minute to get set up, she ended up giving me 5 minutes and I found out later that her dress had gotten stuck on a bush and she had to untangle herself before walking down! Such are the perils of eloping in the great outdoors.

Close friends were in attendance for their intimate ceremony, and their adorable pup, Zinnia. They celebrated the ceremony on the cliffs of Beavertail State Park and had a mini reception with baked goods and sandwiches right there as well. We explored the many views of Beavertail before heading over to the Chanler in Newport, RI, where they were staying that night. The grounds of the Chanler made for incredible photos before we headed out for Fort Adams to catch the sunset. Everything happened just in time, too. As I was driving home from their elopement a huge storm rolled through, which hurricane-force winds, and massive amounts of rainfall. Talk about threading the needle in terms of weather.

There were so many sweet moments during their day- from the vows to all the laughter. One of my favorite moments was when we were driving together to Fort Adams to catch the sunset, Victoria mentioned that this was literally the best day of her life and the perfect way for the two of them to celebrate it together. Everything had just gone so wonderfully, from the views to the vows, it was all she imagined and more! That’s always what we aim to do, and it is so wonderful to hear that, in the middle of their day, we absolutely nailed it.

When we were in the booking process Victoria told me she had planned and even mostly paid for a traditional wedding when they realized it wasn’t what they wanted. When she reached out I had a note on my website that I was already fully booked for the season, but something about the two of them (she made me cry on our initial phone call when she talked about working with special needs kids) made me realize that they were exactly the people I wanted to serve in this work that I do. And I’m so happy we were able to make their dreams come true.

As night fell and we headed back to the hotel where they had dinner planned that night, they had a few drinks with friends, we watched the storm roll in and cover up the stars and they relaxed content knowing that they had chosen the best possible way to get married catered perfectly for the two of them.

From the couple…

“Kat is an incredibly talented artist, wonderfully kind person, and all around magical human! When I first contacted her, I was in the throes of anxiety—I had planned and paid for a traditional wedding when I realized that wasn’t what I wanted. My now husband and I decided to elope, and after pouring over Google searches, landed on Swell and Stone. From the moment I saw her photographs, I knew we had to book her!! I contacted her and she got back to me so quickly, and was SO flexible—I gave her basically a 2 month timeline and she made it work for us!!

The day of my wedding, I was running late and she made me feel so at ease and not stressed at all! The whole day was so fun, and she found the MOST beautiful spots to take pictures that I see in wedding magazines and on the internet—I still can’t believe these are pictures of my wedding! She had our sneak peek ready in less than a week, and gave us the rest of our pictures (HUNDREDS!!) well before the agreed upon date.

Kat was incredibly flexible, professional, and open minded—she wanted to do whatever we wanted because it was our wedding, but also made sure to note things that would be preferable from a photography stand point. She is a lovely, warm, kind, and relaxed person, and I genuinely cannot recommend her enough to anyone looking for wedding pictures that will make you think you are dreaming. She also included drone shots (so cool!!) and GIFs which are some of my favorites!”

— Victoria & Taylor

Sunset Adventure Elopement in Vermont's Green Mountains

Rachel & Ryan’s Sunset Adventure in Vermont Mountains

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / VERMONT & BEYOND

Rachel & Ryan’s day two of their beautiful elopement style wedding in the incredible Green Mountains of Vermont was not short of spectacular. Click HERE to see day one of their wedding in Rhode Island. We had pretty much the nicest day on the mountain that I can remember. Most of the time it’s really windy on the ridge line and summit, and cold even in August sometimes. It was October and there was only a slight breeze and it was 70 degrees, even on the ridge line. Rachel choose her day two dress expecting chilly temps and instead was greeted with warm weather and beautiful views. We began the hike and it was clear that sweating too much was going to be the issue, not hiking fast to stay warm!

They brought their jeep up the road and the fall foliage was so incredible everywhere that we stopped multiple times to play in the leaves and take in all the colors of the trees. The had a blast throwing leaves and running around like little kids. Because we spent so much time doing that we were a little worried we might miss sunset, but started the hike with well over an hour before the sun went down. The incredible thing about this spot is that you have 360 degree views pretty much the whole way. We watched the sun sink over Lake Champlain and the Adirondacks and we reached the summit just before sunset. Rachel and Ryan danced and took in the views from the summit as color lit the sky. It was one of the most beautiful sunsets in recent memory and was made even better by the fact that we could hang out comfortably on the summit while it was happening. I’ve been on this peak over 25 times in the last several years and every single time there is a different type of weather to contend with. Normally, we are either racing fog to the summit, fighting snow, or battling high winds and chilly temps in wedding attire. This was one of the first times we could just sit and take it all in!

It was so nice up top that the hike out, even though it was in partial darkness, was really nice. So nice that I suggested we hang out a few more minutes to watch the stars come out. They were happy to, and we got some amazing milky way and night sky photos. I took one more shot of them and then they were able to head down the mountain while I laid in the meadow with my camera time lapsing for the next hour so I could create the star trail image (the one with the stars in a circle) that you see above. It was a very satisfying end to a beautiful day on the mountain.

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Denise & George’s Magical Cape Cod Elopement

SWELL & STONE / ADVENTURE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER / MASSACHUSETTS & BEYOND

Denise and George’s Cape Cod elopement, which included their two kids, was such a heartfelt and adventurous day. When Denise first called and mentioned they’d love to adventure on the Cape, my first thought was this remote and secluded lighthouse that was only accessible via a 4x4 vehicle and a permit. They were completely game and even went a couple of days early to make sure they could secure the permit and test drive the route to see if their vehicle could make it! Needless to say, they accomplished it, and what followed was an incredibly beautiful and adventurous day with their two kids along for the ride.

At this point in their relationship, Denise and George had been together for over a decade and had known one another even longer. They wanted a day to truly celebrate their “little love pack” and include parts of the adventure that everyone would enjoy while keeping the focus on their union with one another. They visit the Cape every year, so this year they thought they would go one extra time and include a special day for celebrating their love.

The kids were totally game to enjoy the day with them and had an absolute blast the entire time. From running around in the sand to seeing a seal to eating lobster rolls it was their idea of a great day too. The fog rolled in during the evening ceremony, and although we didn’t get a dreamy sunset we did get a really cool misty aura that surrounded us. I like to tell my couples that every type of weather is truly special and memorable if you go into it with the right attitude. In fact, it’s some of the “bad weather” days that make for the best days in my opinion, and some of the perfectly sunny days that make for the toughest lighting conditions as a photographer. They had a great attitude and even managed to sneak in an outfit change in the middle of the day.

The drive out on the 4x4 road wasn’t too bad, just a little soft and deep in a few places. But George kept his speed through those spots and managed it perfectly. We found a little spot on the dunes with both views of the lighthouse and the ocean for the ceremony spot. The couple exchanged heartfelt vows and the kids looked away when their parents shared their first kiss as married people. Everyone ran down the dune after, ready for some celebration dinner, and spotted several seals bobbing in the water checking out what was going on. There was only one other car way down the beach and almost out of sight. It truly felt like they had a private beach completely to themselves for their day.

We laid out a picnic blanket and watched it get dark while enjoying the sounds of the ocean and the food. Then we started the drive back, making a stop at the lighthouse for some photos, before doing the rest of the 4x4 drive. Luckily, we didn’t get stuck, as digging out in formalwear would have been a unique challenge. All in all Denise and George created a day that they will remember for a lifetime, and their kids will as well, no doubt.